Hi Ray,
Sorry for misunderstanding about whether you'd put the bootloader on. I did find it hard to believe that you would be doing the more advanced thing (i.e. using the Uno as an ISP to write programs directly) but then not putting the bootloader on.
We could try debugging further by running avrdude from the command line (the program that the IDE is using behind the scenes to flash bootloaders etc) but I think it's probably easier to assume for now that the mini driver you have is duff, and I'll send out a replacement mini driver as promised on Monday.
So please, take a break for now, and if you're interested later on in the week I can point you towards the avrdude commands for flashing from the command line (if you haven't looked at it already) to see if we can revive your mini driver so you can have 2.
Regards
Alan